Due date for resurfacing....

Sometimes I'll catch myself in a mindset that I've decided previously wasn't a favorable one. Such as not practicing C.Y.A. (Cover Your Ass). Like when I'm in a great mood, not only am I generous, polite, and constantly trying to be considerate (which are things I always try to be), but also do my best to go the extra mile with many compliments that are sincere and actions that are also very genuine.

Doing this though, on the contrary, also leaves what I call "social blind spots". One would say it falls under the category of over-thinking. I say, it's not over thinking if it prevents 'obvious' problems or situations that are wished to be avoided, such as kindness being taken for weakness, or actually facing false assumptions of character, later affecting the other overall opinions of others based on myself. And the big general of them all, just plain old being taken advantage of. As paranoid and what not as it all sounds, lately I tell myself to constantly resurface to the big picture and to avoid social blind spot around the individuals that I need to turn the C.Y.A. switch on for. Because those who are thought to be weak are also targets for being victims of being placed in situations, verbal or/and physical alike, of unwanted dramatics or or scenarios they have nothing to do with, or even as distractions for someone else's actions, which is their way of C.Y.A.

So if you've had certain events or situations with people you deal with everyday or people of your choosing it's necessary for, remember to have a due date of resurfacing during your interactions.......that's just me though....